This serves more to set up the point about adjectives that follows, but if you think of it, there are people who are meant to be fathers and those, who aren’t. The actions they choose, however, are theirs to choose alone.
Some were never meant to have kids, but did, and raised them well. Others were, but had kids too early/too late, and ended up being “bad fathers.” But all of that is our interpretation.
And that interpretation rarely serves you in living your own best life, regardless of what it is. But of course, you’re right, I’m using this line to make a point here!