The Complete, 17-Reason Checklist for Why You’re Unhappy Right Now
And how to fix each one
You’re smart. Unfortunately, smart people sometimes exhibit thought patterns that prevent them from being happy.
While it takes time to change these patterns at large, each one is reflected in only a few “miseries of the day.” Those, you can shake off immediately.
You can’t go from unhappy to perfect bliss in a day. You can, however, check what bothers you right now and try to eliminate it. That’s how you uproot negative beliefs.
Here’s the complete, 17-reason checklist for why you might be bummed out today — and how to fix each one.
You think too much. You do so in 4 distinct ways:
1. You cycle through past regrets, wondering what you could have done better. The answer is “a lot,” but the past is still the past. There is nothing you can do to change it, and every thought spent on it is a thought not used to improve the present. Accept the past, move on. Always look forward.
2. You live in the future because “everything will be amazing.” You spend all your time in an imagined, perfect tomorrow, so you have no time left to make it a reality. But tomorrow is built on today. Use today.
