My point does not conflict with what you’re saying. My point is that choosing to put time in effort in either self-improvement or financial success is a conscious choice.
The common notion is that one inherently breeds the other. It doesn’t.
You losing weight will do nothing for your email list and vice versa. You can be overweight and have a great email list and you can have a perfect BMI, yet suck at email marketing.
I think where we disagree is that I see two threesomes, not a foursome.