Most things in life live on a scale, right? There are two, sometimes more, extremes, and you usually side with either one to begin with.
Then, over time, you may switch sides, but then, you realize you have to switch sides again. And again. Each time, it seems like you were “wrong” the last time.
Eventually, you arrive somewhere in the middle, having unlearned and re-learned the same lesson countless times, only to finally realize there might be no fixed solution anyway. Then, it’s continuing to adjust your perspective based on the situation and that too requires you to let go your old one. It never stops.