I don’t think so. I think you have to try and learn to live your own lives alongside one another without dragging each other to hell all the time. It’ll require a lot of growth, learning to be alone and not projecting your own flaws on one another, but it’s possible if you’re both committed to it and see that you both have to go 50% of the way — and that you can’t go more anyways. Good luck, wishing you guys the best!